When is it Real?

I have been in 'love' with a lot of guys. Its funny to think about falling in love more than once when you believe that love happens once, which is what all the movies make you believe. So why was it that I fell for so many people? hahahahaha.
I think the reason I have is (which I believe a lot of people have but maybe some have difficulty in figuring out) is the idea of love. To be honest, I blame all the movies. They portray this fictitious love-at-first-sight and what not. All the loyalty, the depression after the 'loss' of the loved one, and more crap. uff!!!
When I was very young I had this guy friend I used to sit with always. We were good friends. We shared fun, our experiences and overall cared about each others well being. And this was when we were young. :D. I 'loved' him.hahahaha. But then after some years a new girl came in our class and the hero of this particular story fell for her. So thats where this ends. We didn't talk much after that, he always wanted to sit with her, talk to her, basically all the things that we used to do together. I left the school that year and got over that. I realised that that's not love. All that was was a person you can call your friend and have fun with. And come on I was just in 5th. I don't think that love happens even before you've hit your puberty. :D
The next phase was funny. I saw a guy and whoa! I got a crush on him (but hey! he had to be hot :D). This continued for a long time. But then there was this really cute senior for whom I fell for the instant I saw him.hahaha. Awwwww. Love at first sight.hahahaha. That's what I believed inspired from all the movies. I liked him for 5 years after that even after he vanished from my life. Since he used to live close to my house I used to always use the roads connecting his house. Such a stalker I am. ;). But one day on facebook I got to know about his girlfriend and i got over it. Well not completely. :D
There have been more guys but about them in the next post. And also I give the answer - When is it Real? :D
because I know. :D